It's finally happened. Nap time is totally off the table. To be totally honest, it's been off the table for a while now but naps were still happening occasionally and when they did, choirs of Angels sang praises from the skies. I loved nap time.
However, we've transitioned to "Quiet time" and while it's not always quiet...and not always a lot of time...it seems to be working for us. The basic concept is that Arthur does a quiet activity in his bedroom for one hour. It sounds simple enough but finding a way to keep him chill and happy for quiet time has taken a while to get right. That's where audiobooks have come in. We get our audiobooks from a variety of sources, but first - why have quiet time at all?
- For your own sanity. Now seriously, life in a tiny space with a tiny tornado of a two year old can get a bit intense. Throw in a husband who works at night and sometimes needs to sleep during the day, a baby who needs to nap, no second bedroom and a thousand tasks that need to be done & quiet time is literally saving lives.
- Allows children time to reset, be with themselves and rest. Important stuff for little bodies and minds that are on the go and learning all day long.
- It increases confidence, creativity and independence. This is the time of the day that Arthur is really alone to play. I'm not there for him to bounce ideas off, play with, or even talk to. This is generally the time when he does his most imaginative playing, challenges himself with what he plays with (our dominoes, lotto and matching cards get used a lot in this time) and also what books he looks at.
Audiobooks have been a fantastic addition to our quiet times. We use a wireless bluetooth speaker that I control from my iPad or phone. This has been useful because I can control the volume, turning it down or off totally if Arthur, by some incredible chance actually falls asleep. As the stories for his age group are generally shorter than one hour, I can also control what he listens to next. We get our audiobooks from a variety of places:
- CDs that come with books. Yes it's still possible to buy books with audio CD's attached! We don't have a CD player but I just pop them on the computer and then onto my iPad or phone. We've got a few lovely ones like this including Emma Thompson's Peter Rabbit stories and a really gorgeous version of Peter and the Wolf.
- YouTube. Often it's possible to listen on YouTube. We just play the sound on the wireless speaker while the video plays elsewhere. It's not our favourite way to listen but it works and we've found some lovely classics like Wind in the Willows and lots of Beatrix Potter stories.
- Record yourself or a loved one reading. This is currently our favourite way to listen to stories. My Grandma recently found a recording my Grandpa made in the eighties of him reading bedtime stories to my eldest cousin Hannah. Hannah's managed to put them onto a memory stick for a few of us cousins who have small children and so, often Arthur will be read a story by my grandfather, who died when I was thirteen. It really is incredible and heart rending to hear his voice reading to my son, whom he never met. I wonder when he recorded it, if he could have imagined that Arthur or any of his other five great-grandchildren would be listening to his stories fifteen years after his life had ended. It really is magical to me that Arthur can hear his voice and it has encouraged me to record myself and others reading stories too.
With an audiobook playing in the background, Arthur will happily play in his room for at least an hour at a time. We try to time it for just after lunch, when everyone needs a break before diving into the afternoon's activities. Do you implement a quiet time in your house? Do you love audiobooks too? Let me know your favourites & where you're getting them! We're always looking for more.